Proven Signs That You Are In A Toxic Family

Ilhana
2 min readDec 15, 2023

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Do you know that feeling when whatever you do,no matter how much you try you never can be good enough to someone? I really wish your answer is no. Or that feeling that you are controlled by someone,that someone knows every little step of your life? And when you do something by yourself,without them knowing,they are mad because they didn’t know you did it?

This is how that looks like,if those people or that one controlling person was toxic chemical and mud.

You are trying to move and walk,but you it is just hard and it gets harder with every step but you either walk or lay down and die.

SURE SIGNS YOU ARE BEING CONTROLLED:(by your own family)

*You are constantly depressed.

*You feel like you are not worthy.

*You don’t enjoy anything.

*You don’t know how to do anything by yourself,because you need permission to do everything.You got used to it.

*You are not allowed to do anything by your choice without saying your plans to your family.

*You have to act like you are expected.Like every other person.

*You are not allowed to make mistakes.

*You have to follow rules for everything in life.(literally everything)

THE MOST OBVIOUS SIGN:

YOU HAVE TO.

REMEMBER:No matter of your age,you can become controlled by your family if you let them into your life too much.No one can decide and build your life path other than you.Family is there to support you with your decisions and help you if you ever need help but not to control every fragile of your life.

You are a human being,not a dog.You are not supposed to be trained like it.

LIVE YOUR LIFE BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE.

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Ilhana
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